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Marie Louise on pregnancy, motherhood and why ‘messy’ is more than okay
The Modern Midwife shares a refreshingly honest take on motherhood - and why support matters more than perfection
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Marie Louise knows how important it is for mums to feel supported in practical ways (Image: Momcozy)
For someone who has delivered hundreds of babies, written bestselling books and built a loyal following as The Modern Midwife, you might imagine Marie Louise has motherhood all sewn up.
But the much-loved midwife and author, who is currently 20 weeks pregnant with her third child, says that couldn’t be further from the truth.
Speaking at the AllBright Step Forward 2026 summit as part of her ambassadorship for Momcozy for International Women’s Day , Marie Louise offered a heartfelt reminder that even the experts are still learning as they go.
“I’m right in there myself,” she said with a laugh. “I’m navigating modern motherhood too.”
And it’s exactly that honesty that continues to make Marie Louise such a trusted voice for mums everywhere.
Marie Louise speaking at the AllBright Step Forward 2026 summit
(Image: Momcozy)
The side of motherhood no one talks about enough
While pregnancy and new motherhood are often presented as joyful milestones, Marie Louise says there’s another part of the journey that deserves just as much attention: the emotional and personal shift that comes with becoming a mum.
She describes that transformation as matrescence - the process of becoming a mother, and the identity change that comes with it.
“Your identity completely changes,” she said. “And that is okay. I think a lot of women in our culture are taught to stay strong, to fight through it. But it’s okay to feel 20 different emotions in one day. You’re not losing your mind.”
It’s a message that will resonate with so many women. In a world full of polished social posts and impossible expectations, Marie Louise’s words feel like a much-needed exhale.
Rather than resisting those emotional ups and downs, she believes there’s real strength in accepting them.
What can feel overwhelming in those early days can also bring unexpected growth - from sharper instincts to newfound resilience and even some surprisingly impressive negotiation skills.
“Negotiating with a two-year-old - I’ve been ready for anything since!” she joked.
Momcozy's range of products can help lighten the mental load for new parents
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Why practical support can make all the difference
Alongside emotional reassurance, Marie Louise also highlighted how important it is for mums to feel supported in practical ways, especially when it comes to feeding.
For breastfeeding mums, whether at home, on the go or balancing work and family life, convenience and comfort can make a real difference.
As part of her partnership with Momcozy, Marie Louise highlighted products such as the Momcozy Air 1, a wearable breast pump that fits discreetly inside a nursing bra.
According to the brand, it features a slim profile, a quiet motor, app connectivity and a wireless charging case intended to make expressing milk feel more manageable around everyday life.
She also highlighted the Momcozy KleanPal Pro Baby Bottle Washer and Steriliser, which is designed to wash, sterilise and dry bottles, pump parts and baby tableware.
Momcozy says it also includes a quick wash cycle and a filter system intended to help keep items sterile after cleaning.
For many new parents, it’s exactly these kinds of time-saving touches that can help ease the mental load.
Marie Louise wishes to see motherhood represented in a more realistic, compassionate way
(Image: Momcozy)
A more honest picture of modern motherhood
What Marie Louise says she values most is seeing motherhood represented in a more realistic, compassionate way.
“When brands represent motherhood as being imperfect, as being messy at times, as something you have to be dynamic and adaptable to navigate, and that it’s okay to cry, I think that’s really important,” she said.
It’s a powerful sentiment - and one that feels especially meaningful for mums who may be struggling under the pressure to “do it all”.
Because if there’s one takeaway from Marie Louise’s message, it’s this: motherhood doesn’t have to look perfect to be beautiful.
Sometimes, the most reassuring thing a mum can hear is simply that she’s doing brilliantly already.
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For more information, advice and products for parents, visit Momcozy at uk.momcozy.com
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